NLP Coach for Vietnamese Women
Who have everything figured out, except this one thing.
You loved seriously. You gave it real efforts, real heart, real commitment. It still fell apart. You do not know why, but it keeps happening.
I find the invisible programs behind the pattern, and release them at the root.
a quiet Question
Does this feel like you?
You have built a life many people would envy. The career, the independence, the standards. On paper, you have it together.
Love is the one place it keeps coming apart. You loved seriously, you gave real heart and real effort. It still did not last.
You watch yourself do it. Feel nothing for the kind, steady man. Lean in for the one who was never going to stay.
You see the pattern clearly. Seeing it has never once stopped it.
You have read the books, tried therapy, meditation, affirmations. They gave you understanding, not change.
When someone asks how you are, you say "I'm fine." You have said it so long it almost sounds true.
If you recognised yourself in even 3 of these lines, you are in the right place.
training & credentials
Certified NLP Coach & Practitioner · Time Line Therapy Practitioner · Hypnosis Instructor · Huna Practitioner
Trained by David Shephard, a Master Trainer of NLP atThe Performance Partnership, UK. The same school where Fraser trained over 25 years ago.
why it keeps happening
You are not broken. You are at war with yourself.
When you are at war with yourself, you cannot receive love, however good it is. It is not your fault, and it is not a flaw. It works like this:
It is like being unwell. Someone places the finest meal in the world in front of you, and you cannot taste a thing. Everyone insists it is extraordinary. You cannot register it. The meal was never the problem. You have to get well first. Receiving love works exactly the same way.
in plain terms
You are not unlucky in love. You are running unconscious programs, installed in childhood and by our culture, that quietly decide who you want, what you tolerate, and what you cannot receive.
I find those programs and release them at the root.
Why work with me
Hello, I'm Trinh
Before I became a coach, I spent years in the corporate world. My first job was at Southern Airports Services Joint Stock Company (SASCO), then multinationals like Saeco and PUMA, navigating cultures I was not born into, performing at levels that left no room for vulnerability.
I know what it takes for a Vietnamese woman to excel in international environments. I also know what it costs you on the inside. The version of yourself you build for the world is not the version that knows how to receive love.
I know the shape of this road. I know where it begins, how it hides, and where it often leads if nothing changes.
That is why I dedicate my work to empower Vietnamese women like you, who have built everything on your own, career, finances, life, and loved with real intention, but love keeps falling apart and you don't know why...
...and want a life partner who truly fits while still being fully yourself.
client experiences
What they say
Some women came to me for love. Others came for confidence, purpose, burnout, or a pattern they could not break. On the surface, the topics were different. Underneath, the work was the same: finding the unconscious program and releasing it at the root.
"She is an amazing coach who has helped me find out one of the most important answers in our life - purpose. She also has good energy that inspire people to share, to feel and to accept who we are.
If you're looking for a Vietnamese coach with international experience and professional approach, Trinh may be the best. She made every meeting a worth spending moment for ourself with truly comfortable environment. "
"Trinh gave me a clearer, more structured framework for understanding my worldview, the values I'm pursuing, and how to sustain myself over the long run without burning out. The answers mostly came from within me. Trinh's role was to ask sharp, incisive questions I never thought to ask myself.An NLP Coach's role is not to impose, but to unlock possibilities. So that when the noise of the mind quiet down, your heart can surface its most honest answer.I believe that is the greatest value a Coach can offer."
"I was struggling to find my passion and I was having doubts about myself. Trinh is not the one to ask you to do that or this. Her guidance, coaching, and some funny talks will make you realize yourself, what you are lacking and what you really want to do. If you need someone to unblock your mind, I would highly recommend Trinh. She is trustful, patient, and always spreads the optimistic energy to everyone."
"When I first came to Trinh, I was going through a period of real struggle. Everything felt uncertain - my work, my family, even my own emotions. I just felt exhausted and had no idea where to even begin making a change. The first session was gentle. It wasn't the kind of "lecturing" talk, but genuine listening and heartfelt conversation. After just that first session, I already felt calmer, more able to listen to myself. Of course, the issues that once tangled me up didn't magically turn around 180 degrees, but it was enough for me to realize "Ah, i'm no longer standing still."
"I worked with Trinh and I liked it a lot. I think i found another face of me even I'm really grown up (as age) and a lot multicultural/ global experience. I found a good investment, in myself as I "uncovered" some old dreams, thoughts, desires. It's a good step for personal development which every modern woman should have interest into."
"Having seen the positive transformation that Trinh herself has gone through with NLP and her passion as a coach, I was curious to try it and was very impressed with the guidance, the insights, and the compassionate support Trinh provided to help me define and realise my immediate goals, and deeper purpose.
If you need clarity about your life path and unique purpose then Trinh can help you!"
why me
Why I do this work
Because I hit rock bottom, in love and in life, and nothing I tried fixed it. Not willpower. Not a new city. Not a new man. Until I found a breakthrough process that went deeper than anything I'd ever known.
I was born in Saigon, into a family that loved each other but never learned how to express that love properly. Nobody's fault. Their parents were the same. And theirs before that. Without intervention, the pattern simply passes down indefinitely. It never corrects itself.
I grew up carrying that, and I tried to outrun it. First by working myself to the bone. Then by waiting for a man to rescue me. I dated every type you can imagine. The faces kept changing but the pattern never did. When a kind, genuine man showed up, I felt nothing and pushed him away. When the wrong one appeared, I leaned in. Every time. It was never about them. It was the wound I didn't know I was carrying, showing up in a different face, over and over again.
I went through all of it. And I fell flat on my face.
Then one day, from the very bottom, I did something I never had: I stopped. Stopped running, stopped searching, stopped pretending I was fine. And for the first time in my life, I looked the truth straight in the eye: there might never be anyone for me, ever, and I had to accept that. Because I was already enough on my own.
A few months later, Fraser appeared. Scottish. Quiet. Kind. Not a man I would have noticed before. But by then, I was different. I could actually see him. Today, 11 years together, 8 years married, 25+ countries side by side.
Fraser did not save me. I found him because I found myself first.
What I didn't know then was that Fraser was a trained Master NLP Coach. From the day we met, my life began shifting under his influence, quietly, positively, before I even had words for it.
Years later, when I trained in NLP, Time Line Therapy, and Hypnosis under David Shephard, the teacher who had trained Fraser 25+ years ago. Everything clicked. I finally saw the unconscious programs for what they were: how they form in childhood, how decades of emotion pile up, how Vietnamese cultural rules about what "a good daughter must..." do quietly run every choice. I understood why those programs had controlled my whole life.
That was the moment I knew. This is my work. This is what I was meant to do. I have to empower women like me.
the process
How we work together
One step: DM me on Facebook.
You believe I may be the person who can help you. You send me a message. We have a chat.
If it's a fit for both of us, here's what happens next:
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If we both feel it is the right fit, I will recommend the best next step. Then you choose whether to begin.
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I send you your first task to complete before we meet
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We meet on Google Meet on the day we agreed
That's it.
Ready to begin?
Send me a message on Facebook. We will have a quick, honest conversation to see whether working together is right for you.
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