NLP Coach for Vietnamese Women
Who have everything figured out, except this one thing.
You loved seriously. You gave it real efforts, real heart, real commitment. It still fell apart. You do not know why, but it keeps happening.
I find the invisible programs behind the pattern, and release them at the root.
an nlp coach
Chào mọi người, mình là Trinh
Before I became a coach, I spent years in the corporate world. My first job was at Southern Airports Services Joint Stock Company (SASCO), then multinationals like Saeco and PUMA, navigating cultures I was not born into, performing at levels that left no room for vulnerability.
I know what it takes for a Vietnamese woman to excel in international environments. I also know what it costs you on the inside. The version of yourself you build for the world is not the version that knows how to receive love.
I know exactly where you are coming from, what you are going through, and where it leads if nothing changes.
That is why I dedicate my work to empower Vietnamese women like you, who have built everything on your own, career, finances, life, and loved with real intention, but love keeps falling apart and you don't know why...
...and want a life partner who truly fits while still being fully yourself.
a quiet Question
Does this feel like you?
You have built a life many people would envy. The career, the independence, the standards. On paper, you have it together.
Love is the one place it keeps coming apart. You loved seriously, you gave real heart and real effort. It still did not last.
You watch yourself do it. Feel nothing for the kind, steady man. Lean in for the one who was never going to stay.
You see the pattern clearly. Seeing it has never once stopped it.
You have read the books, tried therapy, meditation, affirmations. They gave you understanding, not change.
When someone asks how you are, you say "I'm fine." You have said it so long it almost sounds true.
If you recognised yourself in even 3 of these lines, you are in the right place.
why it keeps happening
You are not broken. You are at war with yourself.
When you are at war with yourself, you cannot receive love, however good it is. It is not your fault, and it is not a flaw. It works like this:
It is like being unwell. Someone places the finest meal in the world in front of you, and you cannot taste a thing. Everyone insists it is extraordinary. You cannot register it. The meal was never the problem. You have to get well first. Receiving love works exactly the same way.
in plain terms
You are not unlucky in love. You are running unconscious programs, installed in childhood and by our culture, that quietly decide who you want, what you tolerate, and what you cannot receive.
I find those programs and release them at the root.
why me
Why I do this work
Because I hit rock bottom, in love and in life, and nothing I tried fixed it. Not willpower. Not a new city. Not a new man. Until I found a breakthrough process that went deeper than anything I'd ever known.
I was born in Saigon, into a family that loved each other but never learned how to express that love properly. Nobody's fault. Their parents were the same. And theirs before that. Without intervention, the pattern simply passes down indefinitely. It never corrects itself.
I grew up carrying that, and I tried to outrun it. First by working myself to the bone. Then by waiting for a man to rescue me. I dated every type you can imagine. The faces kept changing but the pattern never did. When a kind, genuine man showed up, I felt nothing and pushed him away. When the wrong one appeared, I leaned in. Every time. It was never about them. It was the wound I didn't know I was carrying, showing up in a different face, over and over again.
I went through all of it. And I fell flat on my face.
Then one day, from the very bottom, I did something I never had: I stopped. Stopped running, stopped searching, stopped pretending I was fine. And for the first time in my life, I looked the truth straight in the eye: there might never be anyone for me, ever, and I had to accept that. Because I was already enough on my own.
A few months later, Fraser appeared. Scottish. Quiet. Kind. Not a man I would have noticed before. But by then, I was different. I could actually see him. Today, 11 years together, 8 years married, 25+ countries side by side.
Fraser did not save me. I found him because I found myself first.
What I didn't know then was that Fraser was a trained Master NLP Coach. From the day we met, my life began shifting under his influence, quietly, positively, before I even had words for it.
Years later, when I trained in NLP, Time Line Therapy, and Hypnosis under David Shephard, the teacher who had trained Fraser 25+ years ago. Everything clicked. I finally saw the unconscious programs for what they were: how they form in childhood, how decades of emotion pile up, how Vietnamese cultural rules about what "a good daughter must..." do quietly run every choice. I understood why those programs had controlled my whole life.
That was the moment I knew. This is my work. This is what I was meant to do. I have to empower women like me.
My clients do not walk the 11-year road I walked. 2 intensive days instead.
training & credentials
Certified NLP Coach & Practitioner · Time Line Therapy Practitioner · Hypnosis Instructor · Huna Practitioner
Trained by David Shephard, a Master Trainer of NLP atThe Performance Partnership, UK. The same school where Fraser trained over 25 years ago.
why you
Why Vietnamese women
Because I am one.
Born and raised. I tried to outrun where I came from, the poverty, the limitations, first through hard work, then by pinning my hopes on a man. I know exactly where you're coming from, what you're going through, and where it leads if nothing changes.
Vietnamese culture, Asian culture, weighs heavier on women than on men. Not just society, not just family or friends or the workplace, but above all, ourselves. We were taught from the inside out that "a daughter must..." is simply what's expected. Break it, and you bring shame on yourself. Your family loses face. People turn their backs.
A foreign coach won't fully understand this. Not because they lack skill. Because they haven't lived it.
I didn't just live it. I am it. I am you.
Most people think I do this work for them. The truth is, I do it for myself. Because every woman who breaks out of the cycle moves my own journey forward too.
Every time I work with you, I am not just helping you. I am helping another version of myself. Setting you free is setting me free. This is a road with no finish line. And I am committed to walking it.
the methods
What I actually do
I find and release the unconscious programs keeping you stuck.
Therapy helps you understand the problem. Books and workshops give you knowledge. Meditation calms you down. Affirmations give you nice words to repeat.
Each has its place, but none of them changes the program.
You can know exactly why you keep choosing the wrong man, and still choose him again next time. The program does not run on logic. It runs underneath it, faster than willpower, deeper than insight. At the unconscious level.
I work directly with the unconscious mind.
Imagine you have carried a bag of garbage on your back for years. Every day you add a little more. You never take anything out. How heavy is it by now? How much does it smell? You think nobody notices. But garbage leaks. Garbage stinks. The people around you feel something is off. They cannot name it, but they feel it. And you meet every new person from inside that smell.
That bag is real. It is decades of accumulated emotion, anger, sadness, fear, guilt, shame, hurt, anxiety, and the beliefs that formed alongside them. It is not a character flaw. It is simply weight that was never cleared. Most people carry it their whole life and never open the bag.
This is the work. Using NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming), Time Line Therapy, and Hypnosis, I go directly to the unconscious mind. I find the root event where each program was first installed. I release the emotions stored there. I delete the limiting beliefs running beneath your awareness and replace them with beliefs that serve you. I resolve the conflict between the part of you that longs for love and the part that is afraid of it. I rebuild your values from who you actually are, not from what family or culture decided. And I help you set a clear direction for the next 5 to 10 years of your life.
This is not therapy. It is not conventional coaching. It is not weekly sessions stretched across months.
It is a structured, precise, intensive process built to release the root cause. 2 days, with 3 months of follow-up.
I call it the Breakthrough Intensive 1:1.
The Breakthrough Intensive 1:1
Most women who have done this work say the same thing afterwards: "This is the best decision I have ever made for myself."
This is the kind of experience that divides your life into Before and After. Not because something dramatic happens on the outside. Because something fundamental shifts on the inside. And what follows tends to go far beyond what you imagined when you think you are ready to work with me.
2 days. 3 months of support. And a version of yourself you have been waiting your whole life to meet.
client experiences
What they say
Some of these women came to me about love. Others about confidence, purpose, or a pattern they could not break. Underneath, it was always the same work: finding the unconscious program and releasing it at the root. Clear the root, and every branch changes. Love included.
"She is an amazing coach who has helped me find out one of the most important answers in our life - purpose. She also has good energy that inspire people to share, to feel and to accept who we are.
If you're looking for a Vietnamese coach with international experience and professional approach, Trinh may be the best. She made every meeting a worth spending moment for ourself with truly comfortable environment. "
"Working with Trinh is like mind-changing. Her background in NLP has helped me unlock repetitive patterns of ineffective behaviours and thoughts, which negatively affected the quality of my life and work productivity as well. We had deep talks and dived deep on certain circles of old habits, old beliefs, and more. I can feel major shifts in my mindset, which is for the most part, about self-doubt to self-confidence. "
"Trinh helped me name things inside me that I had never known before. The coaching sessions are deep, and what stays with you are the techniques she teaches, tools you can use on your own for the long-term, to nurture your mental health.
She gave me a completely safe space to share everything, even the things that sounded silly. She has great energy, always warm and professional."
"Trinh gave me a clearer, more structured framework for understanding my worldview, the values I'm pursuing, and how to sustain myself over the long run without burning out. The answers mostly came from within me. Trinh's role was to ask sharp, incisive questions I never thought to ask myself.
An NLP Coach's role is not to impose, but to unlock possibilities. So that when the noise of the mind quiet down, your heart can surface its most honest answer.
I believe that is the greatest value a Coach can offer."
"Working with Trinh has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. I discovered my true life purpose and gained clarity about my mission in this world. The sessions were well-structured, insightful, and practical.
If you're looking for genuine personal development and want to gain deeper self-awareness, I highly recommend Trinh's services. The investment in yourself is worth every moment - you'll walk away with tools and insights that will serve you for a lifetime."
"When I met Trinh, I was struggling to find my passion and I was having doubts about myself. Trinh was there to listen to my concerns. She is not the one to ask you to do this or that. Her guidance, coaching, and some funny talks will make you realize yourself, what you are lacking, and what you really want to do.
If you need someone to unblock your mind, I would highly recommend Trinh. She is trustful, patient, and always spreading out the optimistic energy to everyone."
"Having seen the positive transformation that Trinh herself has gone through with NLP and her passion as a coach, I was curious to try it and was very impressed with the guidance, the insights, and the compassionate support Trinh provided to help me define and realise my immediate goals, and deeper purpose.
If you need clarity about your life path and unique purpose then Trinh can help you!"
"I liked a lot when taking the course with Trinh. I think I found another face of me, even I'm really grown up (as age) and a lot multicultural/ global experience, but indeed, I found a good investment, in myself as I "uncovered" some old dreams, thoughts, desires. It's a good step for personal development, which every modern woman should have interest into."
"After just one session with Trinh, everything started to shift. The process itself was powerful, and I felt lighter almost immediately.
What I deeply appreciate is that the healing didn't begin or end with the session itself. She has a unique ability to ask the right questions, reflect what she sees, and hold space in a grounded, non-judgemental way. Her presence alone is healing.
Trinh is a gifted coach for those seeking clarity, alignment, and a deeper connection to their life purpose. I would highly recommend her to anyone who is feeling stuck, depleted, or simply ready to reconnect with their inner truth."
the process
How we work together
One step: DM me on Facebook.
You believe I may be the person who can help you. You send me a message. We have a chat.
If it's a fit for both of us, here's what happens next:
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You make your investment and choose a date that works
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I send you your first task to complete before we meet
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We meet on Google Meet on the day we agreed
That's it.
the results
This work is not just problem-solving. It is life-changing.
Most of my clients come to me for a Breakthrough Intensive 1:1 with one problem in mind. After 2 days working with me, their problem is gone.
What they didn't expect is that other areas of their life started to shift, too.
Their relationships with family, colleagues become lighter, softer. At work, within months, they either get promoted, receive a raise, or land a new job entirely. They also sleep better, start doing exercises more consistently. And when those biggest areas are sorted, they invest in themselves even more, pursuing what they love. That is what I mean when saying it is life-changing.
You can have that, too.
In Love
You stop repeating the same pattern. When the right person appears, you do not push him away. You see him clearly. And you let him in.
One client used the same dating app she had always used. Nothing external changed. But she responded to a completely different kind of man. He drove 3 hours after work just to see her for the evening. She said: "He walked out of my imagination and into my real life."
At Work
You stop performing confidence and start actually having it. You speak up in rooms where you used to stay quiet. Opportunities find you because you are no longer shrinking.
One client presented at her company's meeting for the first time. The room applauded. When a crisis hit with 10 corporate clients affected, she handled it independently. Senior leadership used her work to present to the C-suite. She was promoted ahead of schedule.
With Family
You respond instead of react. Conversations deepen. Old tensions with your parents soften without you saying a word.
One client's teenage daughter went from argumentative and reactive to calm and proactive. Without being asked. One client's mother, who had complained about her father for decades, suddenly became cheerful. Nobody asked either of them to change. She changed inside, and the people around her shifted.
Inside Yourself
You stop telling everyone you are fine when you are not. You lay down at the end of a long day and feel satisfied and happy. The kind you feel in your body, in the quiet, when nobody is watching.
"I went from 0 to 1. Zero not because I had nothing but because I did not know what I want. Now I have 1, and I can add as many zeros behind it as I want."
Questions
Frequently asked
How can 2 days change what years could not?
Because those years were spent working at the conscious level: understanding, analyzing, talking about the pattern. That is valuable, but it cannot reach where the pattern actually lives. Your unconscious mind processes millions of times faster than your conscious mind. The beliefs and emotions stored there do not respond to logic or willpower. They respond to specific techniques designed to access that level directly. NLP, Time Line Therapy, and Hypnosis are those techniques. 2 days is not a shortcut. It is the right tool for the right level.
What if it does not work for me? How do I know this will work for me?
You do not. And I will not promise you it will before I have assessed your situation. That is why I qualify every client before we begin. If I do not believe I can get you the result, I will tell you directly. What I can tell you is this: every woman who has completed the Breakthrough Intensive 1:1 has experienced shifts that were positive beyond what she thought possible. And although you come to me to transform your love life, once the root is cleared, you will see changes across every area: your health, your career, your family relationships, and your sense of who you are. When the foundation shifts, everything built on top of it shifts with it.
Is this therapy?
No, this is not. Therapy typically explores and discusses the past over weeks, months, or years. It helps you understand why you feel the way you do. Understanding is valuable, but it does not change the unconscious programming. This work goes to the specific root events where the programming was installed, releases the emotional charge, deletes the limiting beliefs, and resolves internal conflicts. The memories remain. The weight they carried is gone.
Will I have to relive my painful memories?
No, you will not. Time Line Therapy does not require you to re-experience trauma. The technique works at the structural level of how your unconscious mind stores experience. You do not need to go back into the pain. You release it from a safe, dissociated perspective. Clients consistently describe the process as surprisingly gentle given how profound the results are.
I have tried everything already. Why would this be different?
Completely different. Self-help books, meditation, affirmations, and therapy all work at the conscious level. They help you understand your patterns, manage your emotions, and create temporary calm. But the pattern keeps returning because its source is at the unconscious level. Because the pattern does not live in your conscious mind. It was installed by your unconscious, often before you were old enough to question it, and it runs faster than logic, deeper than willpower. You have been trying to update the software while the operating system remained untouched. This process works at the operating system level. That is why clients experience permanent shifts in areas where nothing else made a lasting difference.
NLP, Time Line Therapy, and Hypnosis are designed to work at that level. My teacher David Shephard has been refining this methodology for over 30 years, working with clients who invest €15,000 per Breakthrough session completed in a single day. I trained under him directly and apply the exact same framework, the same process, the same precision. With 2 full days instead of one, there is even more room to address everything that needs to be cleared.
a personal note
If I could get there, so can you.
After years of painful relationships and a pattern I could not break, I met Fraser in Vietnam. I was a woman who had stopped believing in lasting love. He was a man who never planned to get married. What I did not know was that Fraser was a trained Master NLP Coach. From the day we met, my life began shifting under his influence, quietly, without me even realizing what was happening. 3 years later, he proposed. Today, after 11 years together and 8 years of marriage, after cycling through 7 countries and living in more than 25, he remains one of the finest partners I know. Not because he is perfect. Because I was finally able to receive what was always possible.
Ready to begin?
Send me a message on Facebook. We will have a quick, honest conversation to see whether working together is right for you.
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